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Question: ok .. i feel bad writting this abt my sister.?
we were out to eat with a bunch of people on NYE and we were talking abt mutual friends and I asked if they lady we were taking abt his kids, and my friend said ‘no, but everyone confuses her w. being pregnant.’ i guess because the lady is overweight. all of a sudden, my sister says “remember, when that girl asked you if you were pregnant?” it totally slipped my mind, because that was literally 8 years ago ? lol. so i thought, i was like “oh, yeah.” so akward. the funny thing is, about a year ago, she was at work and a guy actually asked her if she was pregnant. why wouldnt she bring that up? why would she bring up something to me that happened 8 years ago? i let it slide though. the other day me and her went shopping andbought vitamins .. it is a multi vitamin to give me energy as well as burn fat quicker and speed up my metabolism. i thought for the new year and all i should spend more time at the gym. she bought a vitamin for her skin, hair and nails .. i guess to make her prettier? idkk, so at dinner w. my family my dad askes what we bought and she says “sammi bought weight loss pills” there not particularly weight loss pills, but was i going to say ” yeah, and you bought pills to make you prettier? noo, not at all. once again, i dont kno why she had to say what i bought first anyway. i am not self conscious at all. i am very confident in myself, and hold myself very well. why does she keep doing this to me?
no, actually, people like you annoy me. i clearly know how to spell ‘about’ and ‘with’. thank you very much.
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Answer by Geena
she was never going to bring up an incident that made herself look bad, personally i would have reminded her of it when she pointed it out.
your sister is a very negative influence on you it seems, she is obviously very uncomfortable in her own body and is trying to spot light you to take her mind off it. dont spend any time with her if she continues to do this, you have confidence and if she keeps at this she may start to ebb away at it and thats just low. distance yourself and if she asks why tell her you are sick of her trying to down you all the time and make herself look better than you in the eyes of friends and family. she can either cut it out or you will cut her out.
Question: Did I deserve to get semi-raped by a man like this?
Yesterday I was walking through the park after a role playing session with my local guild. I was in my mid evil costume still. As I was walking by a bench I saw this super hot babe sitting there and felt the butterflies so I decided to try to pick her up. I walked over to her and said “Hi there, whats playing?” and she went “oh, nothing much warrior, just relaxing in the sun”. I was flattered by her complimenting my outfit so I went “you’re beautiful, can I touch your hair?” and all of the sudden I felt someone grab my neck and violently turn me around. Some giant douche at like 6′ 8″ went “what the **** did you say to my girlfriend??”
I decided I would not lose face in front of this hot babe, so I said “Hey, whats your problem Otis, did you forget to drink your milk today?” In retrospect I see that I should not have said that because he proceeded to shake me like a rag doll and pushed me into the bushes nearby. When I tried to get up he kicked me in there again. I felt like a little bit*h begging for him to stop. I could hear his girlfriend laugh in the background.
All I could do was to cast an evil spell over him and pray. But wtf?? Is this the reward for trying to pick up a girl these days??? Please answer me!
Should I try to find this guy and whop his a$ $ ?
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Answer by Bob
It’s not rape if there is no sexual abuse involved.
Question: ok everyone please read this and leave you response?
Someone once noted that a Southerner can get away with the most awful kind of insult just as long as it’s prefaced with the words, “Bless her heart” or “Bless his heart.” As in, “Bless his heart, if they put his brain on the head of a pin, it’d roll around like a Basket Ball on a six lane highway.” Or, “Bless her heart, she’s so buck-toothed, she could eat an apple through a picket fence.” There are also the sneakier ones: “You know, it’s amazing that even though she had that baby 7 months after they were married, bless her heart, it weighed 10 pounds.”
As long as the heart is sufficiently blessed, the insult cannot be all that bad. I was thinking about this the other day when a friend was telling about her new Transplanted Yankee friend, who was upset because her toddler is just beginning to talk and hehasaSouthernaccent. My fiend, who is very kind and, bless her heart, cannot do a thing about those thighs of hers, was justifiably miffed about this. After all, this woman had CHOSEN to move to the South a couple of years ago. Can you believe it?” said her friend. “A child of mine is going to be “taaaallllkkin liiiike thiiiissss.”
Now, do not get me wrong. Some of my dearest friends are from the North, bless their hearts. I welcome their perspective, their friendships and their recipes for authentic Northern Italian food. I have even gotten past their endless complaints that you cannot find good bread down here. And the heathens, bless their hearts, don’t like cornbread, or know how to make a biscuit!
We have already lost too much. I was raised to say “I swaan,” not I swear, but you hardly ever hear anyone say that anymore, I swaan you don’t. And I’ve caught myself thinking twice before saying something is “right much,” “right close,” or “right good” because non-natives think this is right funny indeed. I have a friend from Bawston who thinks it is hilarious when I say I’ve got to “carry” my sister to the doctor or “cut off” the light. She also gets a giggle every time I am “fixin’” to do something.
And, bless their hearts, they don’t even know where “over yonder” is or what “I reckon” means!
My personal favourite was my aunt, saying, “Bless her heart, she can’t help being ugly, but she could’ve stayed home.” She says the most beautiful women in the world are from the South. So if you see an ugly girl in the South, you know she is from out of town, or there is some “bad blood” in her family tree.
Southern girls know bad manners when they see them:
1. Drinking straight out of a can.
2. Not sending thank you notes.
3. Velvet after February.
4. White shoes before Easter or after Labour Day.
Southern girls always say:
1. “Yes, ma’am.”
2. “Yes, sir.”
Southern girls have a distinct way with fond expressions:
1. “Y’all come back! Now ya heaah,”
2. “Well, bless your heart.”
3. “Drop by when you can.”
4. “How’s your mother?”
5. “Love your hair.”
Southern girls know their three R’s!:
1. Rich
2. Richer
3. Richest
Southern girls know everybody’s first name:
1. Honey
2. Darlin’
3. Sugah
Southern girls know the movies that speak to their hearts:
1. “Gone With the Wind”
2. “Fried Green Tomatoes”
3. “Driving Miss Daisy”
4. “Steel Magnolias”
Southern girls know their cities dripping with Southern charm:
1. Hotlanta or Adlanna =( Atlanta as outsiders say)
2. Richmon
3. Challston
4. S’vannah
5. Birminham
6. Nawlins’
7. Naashvul
7. OH! And that city in Alabama ? It’s pronounced MUNTGUMRY!
Southern girls know the three deadly sins:
1. Bad hair
2. Bad manners
3. Bad blind dates
G.R.I.T.S. = Girls Raised in The South!
Now you run along, Sugah, and send this to someone else Raised in the South, i.e., Southern Belles, or ANY females aspiring to be GRITS. Even the transplanted Yankees, “Bless Their Hearts”.
However, remember, “Just because your children were born in the South does not make them Southerners. After all, if a cat had kittens in the oven, that wouldn’t make them biscuits.”
Bless Your Hearts and save the world, as it’s the only planet with chocolate
I figured that every guy has the right to post at leasr on pointless question so this is mine
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Answer by harry
I DO’NT READ BOOK’S AT THIS TIME OF NIGHT
Question: so…… Is this guy a stalker?
So there’s this guy that goes to my church. he likes me and he’s not afraid to show it. we started texting before i knew he liked me. He is…….kinda creepy. and he won’t stop texting me weird things! Like one day he posted on fb : “my bunny’s in your room. he must like you.” but that’s not even half as weird. a few nights ago he was like “you are on the left side of your room (facing the outside of your house) sitting on a rollar desk chair brushing your hair.” then, one time, he was like “you are laying upside down on you bed, with the lights turned off, your room is messy, and you are wearing blue, smiley face pjs.” both times, he was RIGHT ON THE MONEY! It really creeps me out!!! then, at youth group (church) we were talking about my sexual-abstinence-until-marriage vow that i took last week and he told me that he wrote a song. it was about him and i having sex and me losing my virginity to him!
he scares the crap outta me! am i overreacting? or is he kinda a stalker?
also, he has been in my house one time for a party, but he never went upstairs into my room.
Also, to answer a question, I have NOT been flirting or giving him any sign that I like him back. I have a boyfriend (i asked my boyfriend if i could text him and he said yes as long as he doesnt make it inappropriate) and i love my man very much. I DON’T like this guy and he SCARES me! it’s to the point where I don’t even wanna go to church anymore because he scares me so much.
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Answer by crackedopen
k yeah he definately sounds like a wierdoooo
Question: Is pulling your hair out self-manipulation? (posted story on facebook before this)?
I am sixteen years old, seventeen on nine-five. I’ve been pulling out my hair for probably six months now and finally told someone about it, as in my family. Here’s my story..
When everyone started to notice my hair and the bald spots (one or two), they started asking me about it. At first, I told them I cut my hair and that’s why it was so short and everything. I went along with that until the other day when everyone kept harassing me about it.
I went to the Science Center on Friday with my mother, step dad, and my two little brothers. My little brother whom is four years old and I were in line to do Rock Climbing and this lady kept staring at me and just giving me weird look. I don’t know why but it is probably because of my hair. I guess when I was rock climbing, she or someone else was saying I was bald on the top of my head (only a little, not much) and just talking about it. My mother asked me that day (before the lady incident) if I “cut my hair” again and I told her no which was two lies in one when I don’t cut my hair, I actually pull it and I lied. My sister asked me if I cut my hair again (the lie I told them to cover up Trichotillomania) at home and kept harassing me about it, then my mother started and after an half hour of freaking out, screaming, judging, etc. I finally got the courage to tell my sister then she was talking loud/freaking out about it and my mother heard it and said that I’ve been cutting my hair and that you can tell I have been when that isn’t true, I’ve been actually pulling it and I told them that. My sister checked my head and said I’ve been pulling it out and you can tell I have been. My mother was screaming at me and saying all kind of stuff. I told them about my best friend that has the same thing and she called me a wannabe and that I find friends who have problems and want to be like them and act like them when it isn’t even true either. I told them that I went to my one friend about it and asked if she knew anyone that had this and she told me about that friend that has the same thing as me and she’s been amazing and helping me through it. My mother went to the doctors and called my sister because she was freaking out about the dog and said that she is sick of all my pity and that something is always wrong with me. It isn’t my fault that I have this and can’t control it, have urges to pull out my hair and can’t resist them. I don’t understand why they always put me down, judge me constantly, make little jokes and comments about me every chance they get, etc. I don’t know how they got “pity” when I didn’t even want to tell them and they had to harass me to get it out of me. I am sorry that I’m not perfect and have a few mental illnesses. I know I’m not perfect but that doesn’t mean you have to make me realize and and feel like I shouldn’t be alive or deserve to live. But once I’m eighteen, I am gone and everybody lost me except friends. I love you all very much and been there through it all, I appreciate it. I really do!
P.S. My mother is still confused and pissed off probably, but my step dad has been there for me and asking questions, it’s really hard and somewhat embarrassing but it’s helping a little, I guess.. I don’t know but yeah. My mother is calling Children’s Hospital down Pittsburgh to get me help and everything. Thanks you for giving me the courage everybody. <3
My mother, older sister (same one in the story), little brothers plan on going to wal-mart and I don't want to go but I have to because apparently since I
My mother wants to go to store with my sister, little brothers, and me but I told them I didn't want to go. She was on the phone with my step dad and my little brother (four year old) said he didn't want to go either, then my mother said then he can stay with me. My step dad started freaking out I guess on the phone and said that he isn't allowed to because since I've been pulling out my hair, it's self-manipulation when it isn't. It's an impulse disorder, not a compulsive disorder like everyone think it is. My mother told me that they searched online about it and something about Western Physc and that I can be gone for up to two months. I'm not allowed to stay home either anymore which is stupid since I'm not going to end up doing anything or killing myself.
I'm not sure what to do with all of this, so confused and regret saying anything at all because I know they will go crazy with it. Someone help me, please? And Sorry for making this so long!
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Answer by Edward The Original
yes, it is a form of self mutilation, it can be caused through stress. it is a disorder known as Trichotillamania and it is a compulsive disorder where you pull your hair out. i suggest you speak to a psychologist because of this, it is not good to be doing this. there are people who can help you overcome this habit. the possible reason for it could be depression or anxiety, but either way, you need to get it checked out.
Question: Going away… can I skip this month’s period?
I’ve been on birth control for almost a year now. In 2 weeks I’m going to Virginia for a long weekend with my boyfriend and our friends. My period of course falls on the week of this trip, and since I’ve started these pills, I noticed I don’t get my period until Wednesday of the “sugar pill” week. This means for the entire trip, I’ll have my period.
I’ve never tried this before, but is it possible to miss this period? I’m on a pill where every week has a higher dose of hormones than the week before if that makes a difference.
And my real concern is since Thanksgiving I have been losing my hair in tremendous amounts. I had a close death in the family and was doing poorly in college that semester because of that. I found myself under high stress and my hair was falling out at a ridiculous rate. It sounds farfetched, but I’m willing to bet I lost at least a third already. Is my hair loss from stress? my birth control? something else? and will skipping this period cause more hair loss?
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Answer by Meg
I would go talk to your doctor before altering you medicine.
Question: Do you find this funny?
I have heard that recently major 60s and 70s record companies are bringinig the goodies back, but even better. The Greatest Hits Collection is as follows:
Herman’s Hermits – “Mrs. Brown, You’ve Got A Lovely Walker”
The Bee Gees – “How Can You Mend A Broken Hip”
The Temptations – “Papa’s Got A Kidney Stone”
Ringo Starr – “I Get By With A Little Help From Depends”
Marvin Gaye – “I Heard It Through The Grape Nuts”
Procol Harem – “A Whiter Shade Of Hair”
Johnny Nash – “I Can’t See Clearly Now”
Leo Sayer – “You Make Me Feel Like Napping”
ABBA – “Denture Queen”
Paul Simon – “Fifty Ways To Lose Your Liver”
Roberta Flack – “The First Time Ever I Forgot Your Face”
Commodores – “Once, Twice, Three Times To The Bathroom”
Rolling Stones – “You Can’t Always Pee When You Want”
Bobby Darin – “Splish, Splash, I Was Havin’ A Flash”
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Answer by ♥mikayla ®
haha that’s funny
Question: What does this poem mean?
My father thought it bloody queer,
the day I rolled home with a ring of silver in my ear
half hidden by a mop of hair. “You’ve lost your head.
If that’s how easily you’re led
you should’ve had it through your nose instead.”
And even then I hadn’t had the nerve to numb
the lobe with ice, then drive a needle through the skin,
then wear a safety-pin. It took a jeweller’s gun
to pierce the flesh, and then a friend
to thread the sleeper in, and where it slept
the hole became a sore, became a wound, and wept.
At twenty-nine, it comes as no surprise to hear
my own voice breaking like a tear, released like water,
cried from way back in the spiral of the ear. If I were you,
I’d take it out and leave it out next year.
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Answer by Steven H
Punk…
Question: My cat has bald “knees”! Is this due to age?
My cat, Bob, is 11 years old (but sure doesn’t act like it). I’ve never had a cat this old, and on his back legs, his knees (for lack of a better word) are have bald spots on them. They’re probably a centimeter round, and the skin isn’t dry or irritated at all. His last vet check went perfectly and I forgot to ask about them, but if the vet saw them, he didn’t say a word. Is this due to his age? I know he’s not stressed, and they’ve been like that for a year or so. Just wondering if anyone knows anything. Being a black cat, he looks kind of silly walking away from me with little pink spots on his knees.
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Answer by LoveMyMutt<3
It’s most likely due to age, cats coats change as they get older, my childhood cat Scruffy who recently passed away in November (at the age of 20) had thinning hair for years as she got older.
Unless you notice him pulling it out, I wouldn’t worry too much about it.
Question: Who does (or does not) “See” this as pure EVIL (on a minor scale)?
I truly believe that there are people on this planet who posses the required depth to “see” what I’m about to say for what it is. My aunt has been a hairdresser for over 25 years now. She always cut my hair (for free) shorter than I expressly requested my hair be cut (until I was finally old enough to pay someone else to cut my hair). She also ALWAYS cut my mom’s hair much shorter than my mom asked her to cut it. My mom recently became very mentally sick. She went into hospitals that pumped her with too many drugs. In my opinion she is STILL taking too many drugs, but she fears that any “non compliance” on her part will land her right back in the hospital. “The hairdresser” (my mom’s 1/2 sister) has an Irrevocable POA over my mom. My mom never wanted her 1/2 sister to cut her hair again, but the sister refused to give my mom the money (my mom’s own money) to go to another beauty salon. My other aunt took my mom to see her 1/2 sister hairdresser for a hair cut. My mom knew exactly how she wanted her sister to cut her hair. When she started saying, “Please cut my hair like Carrie Underwood’s hair” “the hairdresser” (who has the nerve to call herself my mom’s sister and my aunt) IGNORED my mom (like my mom was not even speaking) turned to her sister (who had driven my mom to get her hair cut) and said, “How do you want her hair cut”? My other aunt said, “Like K’s (her daughter) and that’s how “the hairdresser” cut my poor, sick mother’s hair. Last time I checked you didn’t lose all your rights to be listened to, respected, and treated with dignity just because you became mentally ill. My 2 “aunts” are KILLING my mother’s Soul. They talk down to my mother. They treat her like she is 5 years old. If she gets upset with the sister who has the POA over her the other sister “scolds” her and says, “You were rude-apologise now”. The poor “lost” soul is not even “allowed” to have her hair cut the way she wants it cut, and all I can do is listen and cry. My friend sees this for what it is and doesn’t “mince” words when it comes to calling my 2 aunts EVIL…
My mom hates the way her 1/2 sister cut her hair (by the way). But hair will grow and what my aunts are doing to my mom is far worse (and more deeply damaging) than just FORCING my mom to get a hair cut/style she didn’t want. My mom is not even “allowed” the dignity of being upset with her sisters-that’s the tragedy here…
Answer:
Answer by CAUTION:Truth may hurt!
What you’re looking for is someone to agree with you, not an answer. For that (though I don’t know how old you are) I would normally recommend you talk with a judge to try to take over the POA for your mother.
Is what they’re doing wrong? If things are exactly as you describe, perhaps. I would not call it evil though. I believe I’m just a bit more reserved about the circumstances over which I am willing to use that word.
If you truly want to fix it, look for ways to do so. Yahoo Answers is not a remedy to this problem.
Good luck.